Marriage in the Catholic Church is a sacrament, a permanent, faithful relationship between a man and a woman that is for life. In the Church, such an important life decision should not be entered into lightly and requires adequate preparation and planning. You can expect the process to take nine months.
Because this is a Catholic Christian marriage, there are certain prerequisites necessary before a date of marriage can be established:
*Validation of an existing civil marriage
If a couple is already married outside the Church, by civil authorities or in a non-Catholic Church without special dispensation through the Catholic Church, then the couple may wish to validate - or "convalidate" - the marriage by taking the marriage vows in the presence of a priest or deacon and two witnesses. Usually this quiet ceremony takes place in the church on a Saturday afternoon. There is no cost whatsoever; however the couple must be free to marry in the Church and complete the interview with a pastoral minister.